You Cant Change What You Are

I was browsing through this book about how to get the perfect job that you want. It basically said that it takes help to get to the top, which means you have to do more than just network, but make friends. Friends that would naturally want to help you. Well, that would entail me being out of myself. But I don't care about other people, thats like being phony, its not natural to me to take interest in things and people that i don't care about. Am i antisocial, maybe, but unfortunately its not your accomplishments, or your work ethic that will get you ahead in this life, but who you are friends with. The lottery it is then.